By Leo
Udtohan
People in
Britain and around the world are mourning Queen Elizabeth II, the United
Kingdom's longest-reigning monarch and one of the most enduring royal
personalities the world has known.
She died
Thursday at the age of 96. Buckingham Palace confirmed that the queen had
passed away at Balmoral Castle, her official summer residence in Scotland.
With the
death of his mother Queen Elizabeth on Thursday, Prince Charles has finally
become king of the United Kingdom and 14 other realms, ending a wait of more
than 70 years - the longest by an heir in British history.
When I
visited the United Kingdom in 2017, I didn't meet Her Majesty at her official
residences at Buckingham Palace and Windsor Castle. Even our Boholano friends--
Panglao’s First Lady Annie Arcay in August 2015, and Andy Digal Doria in
March 2018-- who visited Buckingham
Palace didn’t meet Queen Elizabeth.
I wished
to have seen her in person even from afar. I love watching and reading
stories of her life and other royals. It was still amazing to have seen
her (my closest encounter with The Queen) in post boxes and stamps, and of
course, their pound sterling.
The Queen
was also known for her words of comforting wisdom, her stalwart approach to
tough times, and ability to laugh through joyful ones. Her speeches and
quotes throughout the seven decades of her reign have provided guidance,
support and happiness to an entire nation and beyond.
Like all the best families, we have our share of
eccentricities, of impetuous and wayward youngsters and of disagreements. - The Queen's speech to heads of
state aboard the royal yacht Britannia, October 1989
While we have faced challenges before, this one is
different. This time we join with all nations across the globe in a common
endeavour, using the great advances of science and our instinctive compassion
to heal. We will succeed - and that success will belong to every one of us. - Televised address on April 5, 2020,
after the outbreak of COVID-19
We should take comfort that while we may have more
still to endure, better days will return: we will be with our friends again; we
will be with our families again; we will meet again. - Televised address on April 5,
2020, after the outbreak of COVID-19
While
we’re remembering Her Majesty, provincial board member Jamie Aumentado-Villamor
also shares an anecdote about The Queen:
Layo ang United Kingdom, pero I feel the loss of
Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth II on a personal level. Imagine having to rule a
kingdom and lead Commonwealth of Nations at a young age of 25. Through
stagnation and prosperity, I admire her ability to maintain a dignified
monarchy.
I have studied and learned about the Queen and her
long reign. I read and watched the United Kingdom’s history, HERstory. Always
been a follower since my teenage years. Always fascinated by her sense of duty,
of service, steadfast leadership, well-thought of strategic decisions since at
a young age of 25 as Queen, her diplomatic achievements. Worth mentioning, the
Queen’s strong and enduring relationship with Prime Minister Winston Churchill
during the World War II. And of course, her enduring and lasting marriage with
Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh. And yes, mag kilig-kilig pa gani ko
nila.
She was also an adorable grandmom. I’ve been
telling Lola Grenie, “mura jud ka si Queen Elizabeth. Kay cute kaayo.”
Rest in Peace, Your Majesty.
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Remembering
Ruth, 21 years since
On Sept.
9, 2001, my sister Ruth or "Neneng" to her friends, left us at a very
young age - sweet seventeen. It was the saddest moment that we were overwhelmed
with grief at that time.
Words
couldn't entirely describe the pain, emptiness, and feelings of loss from her
passing.
Sometimes,
we asked ourselves if she was alive, how many children would she have? She
would probably be a fashion designer or with our other cousins abroad.
Her
nephews and nieces have not seen her as their "Tita" nor heard her
voice.
Twenty-one
years may have passed, but still, we have not forgotten her.
Indeed,
there is no time limit on coping with grief and loss.
The
family's belief in Jesus Christ and the afterlife for those who believe in Him
has helped the process easily.
Being a
Torah observant, Jewish tradition encompasses all of life, day and night, light
and dark. Even in the most difficult of situations--the imminent and then
actual loss of a loved one--the Torah is there to strengthen, guide, and help
us grow and see beyond our loss.
Slowly,
we've overcome the pain, emptiness, and feelings of loss.
What is
death? This is best answered with another question: What is life?
May her
memory be a blessing.
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Most
memorable lines from our newsmakers (and why we are moved, if we are
moved):
Gov. Aris
Aumentado on the construction of SM Supermall in Bohol: The deal is done in our meeting. Within four
to five years, we will experience the services of the new mall. More big
businesses will come. The economy will boom.
Engr.
Bien Mateo, SM Supermalls senior vice president for mall operations, on the
construction of an SM Supermall branch in Bohol: We are welcome here in Bohol. We felt Bohol is business- friendly. That
is important to us.
Tagbilaran
City Mayor Jane Yap on "PinasLakas" booster vaccination drive in
Bohol: This is to continue our economic
recovery. Now, there are many investors who are interested in Tagbilaran City
and Bohol. Please, get boosted.
Dr. Jaime
Bernadas, director of the Department of Health-Central Visayas during
"PinasLakas" booster vaccination drive in Bohol: Ayaw nato hulata nga ang bakuna mapildi na unya sa COVID, kinahanglan
ang atong bakuna maoy makapildi sa COVID ug kana makab-ot kung atong paspasan
nga macover kitang tanan para walay kabalhinan ug kapuy-an ang kagaw.
Rep. Alexie Besas-Tutor of Bohol’s third district on the new face mask
policy against COVID-19: Again, DOH and
IATF seem to be slow. The United States is already rolling out the boosters
against the old and new variants of COVID. Will the Philippines be late again?
The burden of proof is on DOH and IATF. They must show that the failures of
2020 and 2021 will not repeat now or ever again.
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Thanks for your letters, all will be answered.
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