Thank you.
These are two words that some of us take for granted especially in this age where we do multi-tasking and are preoccupied with so many activities in the world.
When I wrote a piece about Mother's Day last Sunday, a simple "thank you" from featured friends it melt the writer's heart. And if the subjects had received a positive write-up responds that was another bonus.
Of course, there is no law requiring people to do that. But saying "thank you" is more than an act of courtesy, it’s a way of crossing frontiers on an emotional, personal and emotional level.
During the pandemic, some bashed our barangay, municipal and provincial officials for being so slow... but mind you they are doing their best to protect and help us. Why not recognize others for who they are, and for the qualities that cause us to love them?
We should also thank our frontliners (health-care workers, fish and vegetable vendors, cashiers, security guards, barangay officials, police, army, mediamen, et al) and countless other people, they also take risks oftentimes at the expense of their loved ones.
All of us are deeply grateful to all of them who are working tirelessly to help keep our communities safe.
Gratitude is the memory of the heart.
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So how can you keep your sanity in the time of COVID-19?
Most of us are in fear of anxiety and having sleepless nights and not eating properly being quarantined for two months.
Psychology Today shared some tips in managing anxiety during this extraordinary time:
*Stay informed and updated on the news—but (important but) limit your exposure to TV images of pain and suffering so as not to become overwhelmed by grief. Consider reading the news online or in a “real” newspaper instead.
*Focus on the positive actions you can take to prevent exposure to the virus, including social distancing, hand-washing, and wearing a face mask while you’re around others in places like grocery and liquor stores.
*Don’t catastrophize or minimize the health crisis by exaggerating statistics or allowing loudly opinionated, under-informed public figures to influence you.
*Remind yourself “this too shall pass,” and when it does we will have changed, hopefully for the better if we learn from our experiences to be more resilient as we face future challenges.
*Reflect with gratitude on everything good and positive in your life and in the world.
*Think about your loved ones, your shared histories, things you’ve been through and survived together in the past.
*Make sure that voice in your head we refer to as “self-talk” directs your thoughts and actions from a place of information and positive action, not fear.
*Get outside (socially distanced as needed, of course) into the sunlight and nature. There is a beautiful springtime unfolding out there, and a walk or hike can do wonders for you.
*Have flowers and green plants in your home. Their beauty and "aliveness" are inspiring.
Listen to upbeat music. Dance! It’s incredibly therapeutic.
*Celebrate joyfully each positive step toward resolving the COVID-19 pandemic and those on the front lines caring for the ill.
*Laugh. Regularly. Watch funny shows, movies, and stand-up comedy.
*And one final tip: Give yourself permission to cry as needed. It's healthy and a normal human compassionate response to suffering, and we are all suffering. Even the most resilient people need to vent the buildup of sadness at all we are living and witnessing. It's a hard time we are all going through together. But we can get through it together, while holding it together too.
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