Sunday, November 1, 2020

Mikey Gatal at 50: Untouched by Science


Mikey Gatal hasn’t changed at all and not a part of his was altered by science (he's a Beauche user for years).

Look, Ma, no wrinkles! 

At 50 (last Nov. 1) , it seems that nothing about US-based socialite Mikey Gatal has changed at all through the years.

In a Zoom chat, he runs his fingers across his flawless face and says with singular pride, “Untouched by Science.”

Not even the rigorous and stressful stories (and work!) can seem to ruffle him.

Has he perhaps uncovered the fountain of youth? 

"Only Beauche touches my skin," says Mikey.

At whatever age, he will always be Mikey Gatal. 

But due to the pandemic that has kept him at home, Mikey is celebrating his 50th with special friends to thank the Lord for all the blessings.

"My wish is to have a good health, finding one true love...and I wish the pandemic will end so that I can go home and spread world peace," says Mikey, who owns the famous www.mikeygatal.com. 

Before we intrude deeper into Mikey’s private life, let’s find out Mikey’s 50 (actually, more!!!) memorable events and good reasons to celebrate life.

1. I miss my Lolo Intong and Lola Inday because they raised me until l was 6 years old. 

2. I knew it, when I became an expert of chinese garter at the age of seven! LOL! 

3. I became a prince charming in 2nd Grade. 

4.I can't forget someone planted a kiss on my cheek during graduation practice in 6th grade.

5. Then I saw Jorge Besa the moment I reached high school. Ha! Ha! Ha! 

6. When I competed with my sister in getting some papaya leaves to scrub and whiten our legs in high school. 

Whether US-based socialite Mikey Gatal was seven (when starting to perfect the Chinese garter) or fifty (as he turned last Sunday, Nov. 1), he will always be Mikey to all his family and friends.

7. I became a dancer when Ma'am Nila Itac saw my potential. 

8. I was wearing shorts when someone kissed me while walking near Bohol Quality. 

9. I really enjoyed high school life. 

10. My first ever beer after high school graduation. 

11. I flew to Manila to study. 

12. I went back to Bohol for one semester. 

13. I left Bohol because I felt left out of my batchmates.

14. I went to Davao to study.

15. That's My Boy 1992 winner in our campus.

16. A crew at Jollibee Davao was my first ever job.

17. I went to Cebu after college graduation then worked at Jollibee.

18. I met a friend who became a flight attendant.

19. I was interviewed for another job.

20. I was employed at House of Representatives.

21. I became obsessed with tennis.

22. I left Congress and worked at the Meridian Hotel in Bohol for a year.

23. A heart to heart with dad that I have to go back to Manila because he believed in me.

24. Back in Congress for two years.

25. I arrived in America in 2000.

26. My first ever relationship lasted for 10 years.

27. I became an American.

28. I traveled to Thailand.

29. Vacationing in Hongkong with my two sisters and Mom.

30. Mom's trip to the US.

31. I met someone who became my inspiration again.

32. I miss my sister who died of breast cancer.

33. I traveled to Niagara Falls in Canada.

34. I went to New York, New Jersey visiting my friends and relatives.

35. Wine tasting in Napa Valley.

36. Health scare.

37. I appeared and interviewed on TV and newspapers at Miss Universe pageant in Las Vegas.

38. My red carpet experience during the Oscars in Hollywood.

39. I helped someone became a beauty queen.

40. I witnessed and had a picture with Pia Wurtzbach before she became a Miss Universe winner.

41. My 40th birthday spent in Bohol wearing Halloween Costumes with family and friends. 

42. We call each other BFF until now, 8 years of friendship.

43. I love Switzerland.  It never ceases to amaze me!

44. I love Italy and Spain.  I love to visit again!

45. I became skinny! Hehehe

46.  H Club got me inspired again!

48. I worked at Kaiser.

49. This pandemic I have learned to value and cherish life more.

50. My dream house is almost complete.

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Saturday, October 31, 2020

Faith isn’t cancelled--- Ondoy Kalag

Aurelio "Ondoy Kalag"Gahit says a cemetery is a reminder for closure and healing. Photo: Leo Udtohan

All Saints Day and All Souls Day this weekend won’t be the same. 

The pandemic has forced authorities to close cemeteries to prevent the traditional Nov. 1-2 observances when entire families clean and visit tombs, light candles and chat with their deceased relatives, perhaps a luncheon and over a glass of their favorite beverage.

Personal faith celebrations like All Saints Day and All Souls Day, however, are being given their time to shine.

“Faith isn’t cancelled,” said Aurelio "Ondoy Kalag" Gahit. 

Ondoy has long been retired as caretaker of the Victoria Memorial Park (ViMPark). 

"Ondoy Kalag", who is synonymous to ViMPark, clarified that there are still ways to honor sacred holidays like All Saints Day and All Souls Day. 

"Pray for your loved ones. Pray the Holy Rosary. You know what praying the Holy Rosary is a unique way to add meaning to these days of solemn celebration," he said. 

Ondoy has spent most of his life at ViMPark that he, well, perfectly memorize all the names and locations of your loved ones.

He is also famous for his “graveside etiquette” to behave during a graveside service with the same attitude of respect and courtesy.

Ondoy said cemeteries reveal a lot about a place and its people.

He added that people might think a cemetery would make us feel sadder because it is a very stark reminder of the reality of our loss. But for him, although sadness is pronounced, a cemetery is a reminder for closure and healing.

Memories give comfort as people also visited the tombs of their loved ones.

Cemeteries save us from the fading of memory and history. Photo: Leo Udtohan

To all those who’ve gone ahead, our prayers and flowers.

From the press: Dean of Boholano journalists Zoilo Dejaresco, Palanca winner and Bohol Sunday Post columnist Cloviz Nazareno, radio reporter Fil “Hitman” Layao, Bohol Balita Daily News publisher Tony Silagon, Bohol Sunday Post columnist-lawyer Isabelo Sales, dyTR’s Showbiz Chikka anchor Anzing Poquita, radio reporter Ben Pingkian, Bohol Sunday Post publisher Boy Guingguing,  Bohol Standard publisher and Tagbilaran councilor- lawyer Aleckoy Lim, broadcaster Nestor Daarol,  Reynaldo Daro, Sr. , Engr./Chairman Maurito Lim, Loy Palapos, Joseph Ligan, Alejandro Amoguis, people’s lawyer Tim Cabatos, Jessie Bantugan and Nilo Sapong. 

To end this column, I am again putting out the lyrics of one of my favorite songs "Dust In The Wind" by Kansas (at the risk of sounding like a broken record)  that has a humbling effect on me. 

Listen closely and be humbled by the song’s message:

Dust in the Wind
by Kansas

I close my eyes, only for a moment
And the moment’s gone
All my dreams pass before my eyes, a curiosity

Dust in the wind
All we are is dust in the wind

Same old song, just a drop of water
In an endless sea
All we do crumbles to the ground
Though we refuse to see

Dust in the wind
All we are is dust in the wind

Now, don’t hang on, nothing lasts forever

But the earth and sky
It slips away, and all your money

Won’t another minute buy

Dust in the wind
All we are is dust in the wind

Dust in the wind
Everything is dust in the wind    

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Saturday, October 24, 2020

Lamanok Island in Anda town declared important cultural property

The National Museum of the Philippines officially declares the archaeological sites and petrographs of Lamanok in Anda town, Bohol as an Important Cultural Property. Photo courtesy of  National Museum of the Philippines-Bohol

My last visit to Lamanok Point in Anda town was in 2012. And the place is still in place and remains untouched. 


Just recently, the uninhabited Lamanok Island has been declared an Important Cultural Property (ICP) by the National Museum of the Philippines (NMP).

The NMP-Bohol said the archaeological sites and petrography of Lamanok Island has been valuable to the country.

Lamanok Island, described as Bohol’s “cradle of civilization” is home to rocks with prehistoric graffiti and caves with several boat coffins and fossilized giant shells.

During pre-colonial times, Lamanok served as a holy spot for folk healers.

Lamanok Island is the first locality in Bohol that has been declared an ICP.

An ICP is defined by Article II Section 3 of Republic Act No. 10066 as referring to a cultural property having exceptional cultural, artistic, and historical significance to the Philippines. 

A marker, along with the official declaration, has yet to be placed on Lamanok Island.


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Will Pauline win the Miss Universe PH?

Miss Bohol 2017 Pauline Amelinckx will represent the province at this year’s Miss Universe Philippines pageant. Photo courtesy of Mikee Andrei

Since the Bohol bet, Pauline Cucharo Amelinckx, has been consistently topping online beauty pageant surveys, Boholanos are pinning their hopes on her to bring home the country’s Miss Universe Philippines crown.


"Her personality makes her win the crown! She is obviously brought up well. Everyone she works with would love to work with her again. She is open to criticism but she knows how to filter. Even she is smart, she isn't complacent and very diligent during trainings," according to Manila-based Boholano designer Mikee Andrei.

"Pauline is an epitome of authenticity, beauty and genuinity talaga, " Mikee added. 

During the preliminaries held Friday night, October 23 in Baguio City, Pauline won the heart of the judges and the Miss Universe PH followers with her amazing smile and how she effortlessly connected with the camera. 

Pauline grabbed four awards - - Miss Creamsilk, Miss Downy Sweetheart, Miss Cetaphil Sun and Miss Beautiful Face. 

“She has a good fighting chance,” according to Khim Roger Ryan Magtagad of The Art Nouveau (Tan) Models.

“The smile never left her face,” observed Helen Castano who covered the Miss U 2017 in Manila. 

Will Pauline win the Miss Universe Philippines? Will, rather can Pauline (who is up against other gorgeous girls) take the crown from reigning fellow Boholana beauty queen Gazini Ganados?

Puhon!!! 

Manila-based designer Mikee Andrei on Pauline Amelinckx: 'She is an epitome of authenticity, beauty and genuinity.' 



Speaking of "puhon," during the preliminary interview, Pauline and Caroline Veronilla of Misamis Oriental described the word "puhon"  as a beautiful word from their local language. 

Pauline defined "puhon" as “hopefully” and Caroline said "puhon" means “soon or someday”. 

"I would like to choose the word "puhon." It means hopefully. It's the word that we use whenever we talk something that gonna will happen in the future. Like I gonna join the Miss Universe Philippines "puhon", hopefully with God's blessings," said Pauline. 

Caroline said,  "I have always love the word "puhon."  "Puhon" is translated into "someday", "soon". And it is something that inspires me, it gives me hope, it makes me to look to the future. Puhon. Sometimes we use it, 'Kita ra ta puhon.' 'Sabay rata puhon.' So, someday. And that is something I look forward to. "

Their definitions sparked a debate online  on which candidate defined it properly. 

Well,  in Engr. Jes Berlamino Tirol's  Kapulungan (Binisaya-Iningles), "puhon" is an expression that signifies, "God willing; May it be in the future." 

It is synonymous with the word "haraw" and "hinaot" which means "May it happen." 

"Haraw" can be used for bad or good wish but "hinaot" is used only for a good wish. 

The five semi-finalists were chosen last Friday night but they won’t be known until the precious envelope is opened on coronation today, Oct. 25.

(Watch the GMA-7 telecast LIVE from Baguio Country Club on Sunday, October 25, at 9 a. m., with replay at 10 p. m.) 

Let us pray that Pauline will be the next Miss Universe, puhon!!! 

Hinaot unta! Puhon!!! 

Stand by.

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Thursday, October 15, 2020

10/15: It feels like it was yesterday

People are slowly coming to the white sandy beaches in Panglao over the weekend. Photo: Leo Udtohan

10/15/2020.  

For me, it feels like it was yesterday in some ways, and in other ways it feels like it's been forever. 

Across the province Thursday, Boholanos remembered the 10/15, the 7.2 magnitude earthquake, that brought Bohol to its knees seven years ago.
 
This year, during a pandemic that has infected 400 and killed 8 people in Bohol alone, the somber, solemn rituals continued. 

The 7.2 magnitude earthquake that shook Bohol on Oct. 15, 2013 killed 200 Boholanos, injured 800 others, and displaced more than 300,000 people.
 
Local government units also joined in the  simultaneous ringing of bells and sirens at 8:12 a.m. for 33 seconds– the duration of the 2013 earthquake – to remember the tragedy.

Bohol Governor Arthur Yap led officials in a  Holy Mass celebrated at the new provincial Capitol where attendees were asked to wear masks and stay socially distant. 

After the Mass, the provincial government launched "Laum" (Hope) project which is advocating mental health and well-being. 

Yap said it is the provincial government's multi-sectoral response to use advocacy, information, education, counseling, sports, training, livelihood financing and culture and the arts to reach out, to aid and to capacitate those who need help. 

"What better way to mark this occasion of the seventh Great Bohol Earthquake than by launching a program dedicated to building up the resiliency of the Boholano by extending hand for the weak, the faceless, the voiceless and most especially the youth of Bohol, " Yap said in his message. 

He said the pandemic caused suffering, depression, violence, fear and uncertainty for the youth of Bohol. 

"There is no better way to dedicate this effort to build a more resilient and strong Boholano because in the coming days there will continue to be tragedies that we will be confronting," said Yap. 

A unity ride was also held by Team Sikad Kapitolyo to commemorate Bohol's resilience. 

 For survivors whose family members died, it was a day to remember them. 

In Antequera town, Rodel Barace and his family visited the tombs of his four loved ones who were among the 200 Boholanos who were killed. 

In Sagbayan town, the Somoros and Empinados families visited the Bayong Falls in Barangay Katipunan where they mourn. 

They failed not to visit every year to place flowers, light candles and offer prayers on the spot where their children were buried during the earthquake.

Time is passing. Yet, for Boholanos, there will be no forgetting October 15.

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And here’s an article about types of intelligence shared to us by former beauty queen Maria Vanessa Aumentado, who is, again, clueless who the author is. She got the article from a friend of her friend and posted on Facebook. 

There are three types of INTELLIGENCE:

Intelligence Quotient (IQ)
Emotional Quotient (EQ)
Social Quotient (SQ)

1. Intelligence Quotient (IQ):
this is the measure of your comprehension,
ability to solve math problems,
retain information and recall subject matters.

2. Emotional Quotient (EQ):
this is the measure of your ability to maintain or be at peace with others;
be responsible; be honest; respect boundaries; be humble, genuine and considerate.

3. Social Quotient (SQ):
this is the measure of your ability to build a network of friends and maintain it over a long period of time.

People who have higher EQ and SQ tend to do better in life than those with high IQ but low EQ and SQ.

Most schools capitalize in improving IQ level while EQ and SQ are played down.

A man of high IQ can end up being employed by a man of high EQ and SQ even though the latter has an average IQ.

Your EQ represents your CHARACTER;
your SQ represents your CHARISMA.
EQ and SQ make one COPE and manage
better than the other.

Now there is a 4th one:

A new paradigm

4. The Adversity Quotient (AQ):
the measure of your ability to go through a rough patch in life and come out without losing your mind.

AQ determines who will give up in face of troubles, who will abandon their family or
who will decide quitting life's journey.

To parents, expose children to other areas of LIFE MORE THAN ACADEMICS.

Develop their EQ, SQ and AQ. They should become MULTIFACETED human beings
who are able to do things independently.

Finally, DO NOT PREPARE THE ROAD FOR YOUR CHILDREN rather, PREPARE YOUR CHILDREN FOR THE ROAD.

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Saturday, October 10, 2020

Laiilette: 50 Carats (The Actual Birthday Celebration)

Laiilette a.k.a. "Scarlet": "Just turned 50, looks like 40, and feels like 30."

Showbiz luminary Leah Scarnet “Laiilette” Jo Geulen - Boiser, also known by her screen name “Scarlet”, just turned 50 years young(er) last Sunday, an event she’s celebrating with family, relatives and friends. 

According to the “golden girl”, she feels so blessed and she is thankful to God for having received greetings and gifts from family and friends. 

Something unique about that night were the cosplayer-usherettes dressed as angels, Julianne Nina Almiranez Lao and Hannah Samonte, who welcomed and gave alcohol to the guests and facilitated the remembrance signatures.

The gracious sister of the birthday girl, Jesyn Lovette Geulen - Laolao, led the prayers and grace before meals. During dinner, video greetings from well-wishers arranged by Cielo Gabin were flashed which included Christine Manigque - Menguito, New Jersey, USA (friend and neighbor at Soledad); Leo Madanguit, Chicago, Illinois, USA (Holy Spirit School elementary classmate); Michelle Rama, Riverside, California, USA ((HSS elementary and high school  classmate); Ma. Nerissa Virtusio - Clarete, Chula Vista, California, USA (HSS elementary and high school classmate); Veronica Quijada - Manintan, Canada (HSS high school classmate); Gia Galicia, Los Angeles, California, USA (Cebu Doctors’ College classmate); Ricky Inting, Daly City, California, USA (Divine Word College of Tagbilaran – College of Arts and Sciences schoolmate and 1988 Sandugo Re-enactment Group); Margot Recio, Japan (Friend); and Miriam Badayos – Wynn, California, USA (DWCT CAS classmate and friend).
After God, her main source of strength: husband Jade, Mommy Lucila, sister Lovette and family.

A montage of Laiilette’s milestones in photos was presented to the tune of her favorite singer Angela Bofill’s jazzy “Love is in Your Eyes”. 

Adding to the excitement were the messages from Laillette’s showbiz friends - singer Frenchie Dy, actresses Richelle “Rich Asuncion” Angalot - Mudie and Snooky Serna, and Sen. Bong Revilla (Laiilette’s Ultimate Showbiz Crush)

Erstwhile Bukang Liwayway Dance Troupe (BLDT) star dancers - twins Maria Florida “Pol” Acuna and Maria Loreta “Loy” Acuna, still superbly graceful even in their 50’s, opened the after-dinner program with Spandau Ballet’s “Gold” dance interpretation (later was “Despacito”) that ushered the entrance of the birthday girl. 

Unexpectedly, Laiilette was teary-eyed when her sister Lovette’s family and her husband, Jade Boiser, presented her with bouquets of flowers. 

The lady of the house and Laiilette’s mother, Ms. Lucila Jo-Geulen, a certified “fashionista”, turned out to be a woman of few words, thanking the guests and well-wishers and then sat to excitedly watch the whole proceeding. 

Thankful to VRS' Leo Udtohan's birthday gift: the first of the 2-part feature with birthday party coordinator and host, Fiel Angeli E. Araoarao - Gabin.

A uniquely cute knee dance number with ‘80s hits background music was performed by “pamangkins” Lovelle, Luzzio, and Luizzi. Kicking off the singing part was Jeanette Ladaga-Uy’s bombastic song and dance number, followed by Gerry Lugod, Allan Caberte, Gay Andoy – Indick, Charisse Mascarinas. 

Suave seasoned host Raul Phillip Gatal was a hit with his Rick Astley song number who also livened up the party with humor. 

The cosplayer-usherettes Julianne Nina Almiranez-Lao and Hannah Samonte in angel costumes with her sister Lovette.

An impromptu rendition of “That’s What Friends Are For” was done by Laiilette, Maria Florida Acuna, Maria Loreta Acuna-Cacho, and Fiel Angeli E. Araoarao – Gabin, her Holy Spirit School Class of 1983 and Divine Word College of Tagbilaran College of Arts and Science classmate, and 1988 Raje Palanca Sandugo Reenactment Theater Guild fellow performer, who prepared and designed the video presentations and coordinated and emceed the program as her birthday gift for Laiilette. 

The technical direction was done by Lovette Geulen – Laolao. 

Other visitors who gave messages were Boy Castillo and Susan Lim. It was, after all, a pandemic 50th birthday to remember.

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Saturday, October 3, 2020

Laiilette: All Around Star

Actress and performer Leah Scarnet “Laiilette” Jo Geulen - Boiser on love:  'I want to emphasize to people that true love knows no boundaries, regardless of economic status, religion, shape, size, and age.'

A complete package.

That aptly describes Leah Scarnet “Laiilette” Jo Geulen - Boiser, also known by her screen name “Scarlet”, one of the luminaries in showbiz. 

The eldest daughter of the late lawyer Pablito Tan Geulen, Jr., a military lawyer who worked at the Judge Advocate General’s Office (JAGO) and Lucila Jo Geulen, a certified “fashionista”, who is a loving sister to Lovette Geulen-Laolao, Laiilette is into hosting, singing and acting. 

“I would love to play a kontrabida,” Laiilette said in jest in an interview by VRS years ago. 
Give her more challenging roles in teleseryes and movies, Laiilette's natural acting would flow. 

When she enters a room or a hall, everybody is sure to notice, not only because of her build, but because of her bubbly personality. 

Most people view her as an extrovert, which is presumably why she easily earned her place in Philippine show business industry.

She may not remember some of the times she spent with other people. Interestingly, Ofelia “Pia” Perez of the Pitch Internet Café along A. Lesage Street, with her daughter Nicole, still fondly remembers that between 2007 and 2008, Laiilette would frequent the internet café with Holy Name University (HNU) professor, Rosalina Rara-Sarabosing. 

During those times, Laiilette would bring food for her “baon” while browsing the net and seeing then little girl Nicole whom she sweetly called “Cute Gamay”, would share her food with the child.

Certainly, many would have recollections of Laiilette, especially her classmates and friends at Holy Spirit School, Bohol Wisdom School, Cebu Doctors’ College, and Divine Word College of Tagbilaran, now Holy Name University.

As she is turning over to the golden chapter of her life, let us get to know more of her, as she candidly answers these questions: 

* How would you describe yourself?
- I am a very friendly and spontaneous person. I speak my mind, but at least, I’m transparent. What you see is what you get. I value honesty and loyalty to loved ones, even in distance. I love God, I Iove life, and I believe in positive thinking, that with God’s grace, we can achieve real happiness.

* During your childhood, which fairy tale princess did you idolize?
- I always loved the story of Cinderella. I love life and love when true love prevails.

* Do you remember you joined a fashion show in Baclayon when you were a little girl and you were wearing a 2-piece swimwear? “Nasuya kuno si Fiel Angeli E. Araoarao – Gabin” nimo adto. Ha! Ha! Ha! 
- Yes. As a child, I was already geared for the limelight. I joined in amateur singing contests at DYRD-AM and won in them, of course. Until now, I still remember Peter Dejaresco telling me “Day, ayaw na apil sa contest kay para ni sa mga pobre”,  so I cried and told him, “Pobre man pod mi, mao na apil ko contest.” The first prize was P15.00. “OK ra makatan-aw ko’g sine sa Bohol Quality and Sir Peter never forgot me. Years later, I was given the break to sing my first jingle “Angel's Wings” promoting the travel agency of Peter's wife, Zarah Jao-Dejaresco, which is still being played over the radio for more than 30 years. Also, I was already a fashion and ramp model before my elementary years in some fashion shows in my mother’s place in Baclayon and in Soledad. “Artistahon na ko daan.”

Finding true love in Jade, they're on their 18th year of togetherness.

* What is your favorite food?
- My favorite food is rice, which explains why I’m so big and beautiful! Ha! Ha! Ha! 

* Who is your favorite singer?
- I like Afro singers, especially Angela Bofill who sings love songs and jazz well.

* Do you have pets? 
- Yes. My husband, Jade, and I are both dog lovers. We have our own breed of fox terriers and pomeranians. We name them after dances - “Samba”, “Rhumba”, “Chacha”, “Swing”, “Reggae”, “Jive”, “Jazz”, “Lambada”, “Mambo”, “Tango”, Boogie”, and the latest ones are “Twerky” and “Zumba”. They are stress relievers and are like our babies.

* The important lesson that your parents taught you?
- My parents taught me to be grateful for what I have, although we can also dream as much to become a better person, but the key to happiness for me is to know how to count my blessings - what I have, not what I lack. And most of all, to love and trust God all the time and talk to Him as often as I can.

* How do you as a friend value friendship?
- I value friendship so much that I don’t look at my friend the way others do. One may not like a person I like, but that doesn’t affect my judgment because I cherish a friend based on what she or he is to me. I’ll just be a mirror - if loyal to me and loves me, I’ll reciprocate such feelings willingly. It’s so nice to value friends who value you, too. I have no criteria in choosing friends. Being rich or poor is not an issue. It’s loyalty and being a true friend that matters.

* What made you pursue the acting career when you are a law graduate?
- The ambition to become an actress was my childhood dream. To be enlisted in showbiz is a one-in-a-million opportunity, so being a Juris Doctor is always a fall back. The showbiz thing is a dream-come-true, so I grabbed it. Instead of having the bar review in Manila, I was launched on television via”Okidokidok” and my singing in the Sunday variety show “ASAP” and in the daily noontime show “MTB”.

* How did you get started in show business?
- It was during the MetroCentre Hotel show of comedian/impersonator/ entertainer Willy Nepomuceno where he asked the audience if someone can do a duet with him and people shouted my name to him and so I sang. After that, a talent scout from ABS-CBN approached me and invited me for a panel audition which led to my launching as one of the ABS-CBN Star Magic – Batch 9 talents.

* Were you already in showbiz in 2007 and 2008?
- In 2000 was my stint in “Okidokidok” then “Calla Lily” on ABS-CBN in 2000 and crossed over to GMA-7 in 2006 till the present, though inactive ako ngayon. In 2016, when Dad died, I had to stay here in Bohol with Mom, till now. “Nag-negosyo na lang kami ng asawa ko ng online dessert foodie business”.

* Enumerate the shows and movies you were part of.
- Starting with “Okidokidok” and the rest is history. I technically had my “baptism of fire” as cast in the Aga Mulach-starrer situational comedy (sitcom), then had singing stints in the Sunday variety show “ASAP”, as well as guestings in different ABS-CBN shows “Calla Lily”, “Martin Late at Night”, “Homeboy”, “Star Studio Presents”, “Kris Aquino Show”, “The Buzz”, “Showtime”, “MTB”, and many more. When I got married, I stopped for a while and resumed showbiz work via “Idol Ko si Kap” topbilled by Senator Bong Revilla at GMA-7, then followed by the “kantaserye” starring “Asia’s Songbird” Regine Velasquez.  The next assignment was a “kontrabida” role in Jennylyn Mercado’s “Little Star”, then another “kontrabida” role with Gelli de Belen versus Eugene Domingo in the “Jejemon” sitcom. I also had the chance to work with Heart Evangelista in the fantaserye  “Dwarfina”. Another “kontrabida” role was lined up in “Aso ni San Roque” that had the formidable Eddie Garcia in the cast, followed by “Biritera” with Glaiza de Castro and Dennis Trillo. I was also in “Healing Hearts” featuring teenage stars Joyce Ching and Kristofer Martin. Then, there are hosting and singing jobs in Luzon and Manila clubs that included the shows with the “Masculados”. It was interesting to be cast in mainstream movies and indie films alike like “Biktima” with Cesar Montano and Angel Aquino, “Pendong” with Will Devaughn”, “Nandito Ako Nagmamahal Sa ‘Yo” with the Aljur Abrenica-Kris Bernal tandem, and in the critically-acclaimed “Magnifico”, as teacher to Jiro Manio.

Laiilette frolicking her furbabies. 



* How did you meet your husband?
- It was not whirlwind romance; we became friends muna. I was renting a studio-type hub just adjacent to the apartment of his aunt and uncle. I became friends with Auntie Nena after she asked me about my place of origin. When I said I came from Bohol, she told me that she is also from Bohol, belonging to the Mendez and Boiser clans of Ubay. We got to talk more often at the apartment grounds and during one bingo time, she introduced me to her nephew, Jade, who was then working at the Sony – Novaliches logistics department. What followed was we became bingo friends, then barkada, then one thing led to another. “’Love thy neighbour’ talaga”.

* What is the greatest contribution that you have given to the arts and culture sector of Bohol?
- My greatest contribution to Bohol’s arts and culture promotion efforts was when I was the original interpreter of the very famous (controversial) song “Bohol” in 1988. A lot of talents interpreted it without acknowledging the original interpreter. In recent years, I am also able to inspire and develop young Boholano talents as judge in different talent competitions. 

* Many people don’t know that you’re a Juris Doctor. Any advice to the law students of this generation?
- I advise them that when they become lawyers or Juris Doctors, they should give sound advice to people based on the law and what is proper to please the law and God, not to make advice  based on  greed or love for money, because in the end, the real judge of one’s undertakings in life is God.

* What does being 50 mean to you?
- Being 50 means living a new life, taking a chance to forgive myself for my sins, and improving myself to become a much better person. So, for me, life begins at 50, that’s why I say that “at 50, let the good life begin”.

* Are you still open for showbiz projects now that you are 50?
- Of course! Once an actress, always an actress, and that’s the only job that doesn’t expire!  Acting has no age limit, because all ages are welcome to act. Remember that we depict peoples’ lives, so all ages are welcome. “Marami pa ako’ng roles na dapat gampanan”, as character actress or comedienne at the age of 50. Let the good life begin, di ba? Hopefully, after the pandemic, as long as I can find a good caregiver-companion for Mom, I plan to act again.

* If you have a single opportunity to engage in a conversation with President Rodrigo Duterte, what will you tell him?
- Well, I will tell him to tap the brilliant abilities and talents of the Boholano people.They are bright, capable, God-fearing, and kind, who will likely become good leaders in his cabinet, so we may have a chance to have a better Philippines ASAP.

* As an advocate of self-love, how do you deal with people who do body shaming?
- I don’t get affected by body shaming because I have always been proud of myself in whatever size I am in at a time or two. I love and respect myself and acknowledge my weaknesses, but thankful of my strengths that make me proud of myself in whatever shape and size. I believe that it’s beauty that matters.  Even if I am big, I know I’m beautiful in my own right that I can handle and maintain such. We can always change our (body) size, but never beauty.

* Any fashion tip for plus-size women that will compliment their curves and make them feel confident?
- Well, they just have to exercise and internalize self-love, feel what they want for their body, dress in accordance with their preferred comfort and be confident in it. Even if you’re big, as long as you’re happy with your body, love yourself and confidently feel good about yourself and you will definitely   showcase beauty and glow in our own right.

* What is it about Laiilette that people have not seen?
- Well, my life is an open book, but if they really know “Laiilette”, I want positive vibes. I want my loved ones and myself to continue to value a harmonious relationship, as I am a very loving and responsible person to my loved ones.

* What makes 'funny' Laiilette flare up?
- Well, I flare up if someone hurt my loved ones’ feelings. I love my family so much and that includes my fur babies, as well.

* How do you cope with the pandemic financial saga? 
- Jade and I are into this online food selling. Our online resto is “Foodie Lovers by Tito Jade and Tita Scarlet”. We post desserts and food packages and cater to customers online or to some personal “suki”.  Times are hard, parties are not allowed, so we get limited orders, that’s why every now and then, we get to reselling some pastries, fruits, and frozen food, such as bacon, sausages, and important items like face shields and others. My husband and I enjoy what we are doing, as we are the masters of our time and we are our own bosses.

* Who is your greatest source of strength?
- My greatest source of strength? God and my family.

* Your most significant achievements in life?
- When, in spite of my being an extrovert, I graduated from law school and I am now a Juris Doctor (Doctor of Laws). Another achievement was when I got the opportunity to enter showbiz because of my God-given talents without fuss, without having to join in competitions to become an actress. I became an instant celebrity cast in different roles in TV shows and movies, hobnobbing with showbiz greats. I did not start as an “extra”, but I was cast immediately using the screen name “Scarlet” for the “Okidokidok” role which paved the way to my guestings in “ASAP”, “MTB”, and 555 sardines TV commercial. Not everyone is given a chance to be a celebrity like me. Lastly, I am able to successfully manage a very simple food business through online selling partnering with my very supportive husband, Jade. Despite the CoVidD-19 pandemic, we just do our best to make a living, with God’s help.

* What do you consider as the greatest proof of the presence of a spiritual supreme being or God in your life?
- That in spite of life’s trials and tribulations, I am still here, enjoying life to the fullest. I am confident that notwithstanding the fact that life is not perfect, I have a bigger God who makes the imperfections perfect, that’s why I am happy pa rin. 

* What song would best describe your life?
- “God is So Good”!  In spite of the challenges of life, I always defeat them because God, who is good, loves me and I trust and love Him, so He always takes care of me. I am happy because God loves me.

* If your life would be made into a movie, which leading lady would play your role and what  part would you highlight?
- Well, I can’t deny my being a Sharonian. I would love Sharon Cuneta to portray my life, that notwithstanding people’s judgments that I won’t graduate law school because I was “one of the boys” and was a “party animal”, I have proven them wrong because I set my priorities and was responsible for my actions. I want Sharon to depict my life as a success in maintaining a happy life, despite of some trials because I have a loving God who makes me feel safe and happy all the time. Now, I am a Doctor of Laws (Juris Doctor) no less. I want to emphasize to people that true love knows no boundaries, regardless of economic status, religion, shape, size, and age - that doesn’t matter because true love will find its way, just as I found my true love in Jade. We have been happily married “buyag-buyag for 18 years na” and counting.  

* Is there anything in life that you still want to accomplish?
- I want just peace of mind, happiness for myself and life – that’s all. I want nothing more. I do not have a child, but God replenished it with battalions of loving nieces and nephews in Bohol from both the Jos and Geulens, and the Boiser clan as well. We may not be rich, but God really provides, so I am contented. I just want to be happier and maybe go back to my intermittent diet successfully to be healthier. Oh, yes! After the pandemic, might as well want to travel more in God’s perfect time. Otherwise, I am already blessed. Thanks be to God.

* The lasting legacy that you will leave to your loved ones?
- When confusion strikes, just pray and let God guide you to do what is right. If it is good, it’s good – you can never go wrong. Just do what is right and everything will follow rightfully. It pays to live peacefully and happily with God, family, and others.


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