You taught me everything
Everything you've given me
I'll always keep it inside
You're the driving force in my life, yeah...
There isn't anything
Or anyone that I could be
And it just wouldn't feel right
If I didn't have you by my side
You were there for me to love and care for me
When skies were gray
Whenever I was down
You were always there to comfort me.
And no one else can be
What you have been to me you will always be
You will always be the girl
In my life for all times.
— Excerpts from A Song for
Mama of Boyz II Men's 1997 album, Evolution, and on the soundtrack
for the '97 film, Soul Food. The '90s R&B group waxes on about a mother's
nourishing and unconditional love.
Mother’s Day is going to be a
little different this year.
It is usually celebrated with
family outings to dinner, spas or family get-togethers in beaches and homes—and
accompanied by plenty of hugs and kisses!
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‘To describe my mother would be to write about a
hurricane in its perfect power.’ —Maya Angelou |
But as the coronavirus pandemic
restricts where we can go, and makes social distancing a new norm, many of
these traditions will have to be cancelled.
This doesn’t mean Mother’s Day
has to be canceled this year, protested my friends-Helen, Inday Charity and
Jessa.
They said there are many
ways to celebrate Mother’s Day when you need to keep your distance.
"You can still get close on
Mother’s Day," said fellow mediaman Inday Charity.
"Gifts are great, but with
everything so uncertain these days, a chunk of your time is the best and most
comforting gift of all," Helen shared.
Your VRS asked some of our
friends the question: How do you honor Mom on Mother's Day when you can't get
close enough to give her a hug?
Here are their answers:
Pauline Cucharo Amelinckx: My
mom has always been willing to go above and beyond to care for me and help me.
In the current situation, not being able to celebrate mother's day like we used
to, I can just be an emotional strong hold my mom can count on instead. Perhaps
more than before, this is what she needs the most. A daughter who can calm her
worries, and help her through emotionally so we can work on brighter days
ahead. I got you, mama. Love you.
Scarlet ‘Lailette’
Geulen-Boiser: It has always been an open book that my mom and I are
just like sisters. We technically don't share the same interests in
some things. We are very opposite in so many things yet our love for each other
tends to bridge that gap because our love for each other always win
over any squabbles. I may not appreciate her unique way of showing how
she loves me but I am pretty sure that she loves me so much and my sister
too. Inspite of her old school type sarcasm at times I'm so happy to have
her as my mom and can't imagine myself having another mom other than my mommy.
She is strict but loving and persevering. Thank God for such blessing.
Mikee Andrei: I've
been close to my mom since childhood. I was always with her helping the family
business and when I went far to work, it was hard but we gotta do what we gotta
do, for the family.
Because of this pandemic, I
haven't really been designing nor make clothes but instead, I cook and bake and
we sell them. (Send me a message to order *winks). I learned this another skill
from her and we're cooking together now, as family. It feels good despite this
circumstances we all are going thru.
This year, Mother’s Day is
double extra for us because it is also her birthday! As much as we wanted to
hug her, social distancing has to be applied even inside our home. This time,
I'd be making a special cake for her together with the kids.
My mom has been my rock and my
best friend. Mothers day is always special to me because it always reminds me
how incredible she is and what she has been giving us unselfishly. Happy
Mother’s Day my Mama Lina! I love you so much and thank you for everything!!!
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‘A mother is your first friend, your best friend, your
forever friend.’ —Unknown |
Fiel Angeli Araoarao-Gabin:
In this time of social and physical distancing measures, when no hugs are
allowed, due to the COVID-19 global pandemic, I will post photos of Mama
Wincie’s significant moments with an accompanying greeting on Facebook - my
simple way of manifesting my sincere appreciation and profound gratitude to her
for all the love she has shown and the sacrifices she has made for Ondoy,
Bibby, Coeli, me, Honey Jerome, Cielo, and Renji. She is, indeed, a wonderful
blessing from God.
Joy Bonita Sevilla: Mothers
should also be our best friends. They will always look after us no matter what
and we shall also look after them in return. We can never be who we are without
them. Since I got married, I see to it that we have our own time, we hang out
together by just going to the Mall or having dinner. I see to it that she’s
happy and above all healthy. At this time, I see to it that I call her over the
phone and check if she’s okay. I'm praying that this virus has to end, I miss
our bonding moments. To My mommy Inday...Happy Mother's Day.Love you!
Liezl Lim -Gregorio:
I will give her a call first thing in the morning. Nothing beats hearing
your Mother’s sweet and happy voice on Mother’s Day. Cooking her favorite
chicharon and kinilaw would be the next task, we are all food lovers and
burpers, after all. Hopefully, we get the chance to make a food delivery and
see her in person and give her an air kiss.
Jesseth
Nez Pasagad: My brothers
and I came up with a plan to surprise my mom with a bouquet of flowers and a
heartfelt message. They did the planning and buying, I financed (lol). We’ve
always made her feel loved and appreciated so Mother’s Day is nothing out of
the ordinary.
Vanessa Cadorna-Aumentado:
Mother’s Day is a special day for me because this is the day I get to shout
to the whole world expressing my love and sincerest appreciation to my Mother
whom we call Mama V. Though, she knows how much I love her, it’s kind of
extraordinary when I do it on Mother’s Day.
I’ve always admired my Mama.
She is amazing in so many ways raising all 6 of us her children. She’s loving,
kind, firm yet there’s always gentleness in her own unique ways. She’s truly a
beauty inside-out. Now, that I’m a mom myself, my admiration to her as a Mother
just keeps getting stronger each day. She’s a part of me being a mom to my
kids. Her dedication, commitment and caring ways are instilled in me. The
values that I teach my children are the values that I hold true and beautiful
because of my Mom. Today, that it’s Mother’s Day, I wish I could give her the
tightest hug, kiss her, thank her and wish her a blessed day but due to our
present situation, Covid, that’s not going to be possible.
So for today, I’ve managed to
send her flowers and a Mother’s day card. Then, greet her through video call.
That’s the closest thing to being physically together. When this covid is over,
I’d treat my mama to a wonderful lunch or dinner. We usually go out and have a
Mother-Daughter bonding. That’s part of our routine.
Once again, a very happy
Mother’s Day to my Mama V. Wish you an amazingly blessed day. I love you. And
To all the mothers out there, cheers to us all!
Maria Fe Evasco- Everyday
is Mom's Day for me. Living with my Mama Nita is a great blessing for me since
I can see, kiss and talk to her everyday. Having a mother like her makes life
easier for me and my family since even at 85 years old, she still manages to
showcase her talents and abilities. During this quarantine time, she has sewn
almost a hundred face masks for our family's use. She also takes time out to
bake our fave breads and pastries. Life with Mom is simply amazing. Happy Mom's
Day, Ma Nitz!
Dr. Joyce C. Castillo: My
mom likes to eat all things pork (even if it’s not exactly very healthy for
her). On Mother’s Day this year, she’s getting her favorite pork dishes. No
bawal!
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